Calm-down songs for big feelings (ages 3–6)

Quick answer

Short songs and exercises a young child can use when feelings get big: Daniel Tiger's "take a deep breath and count to four", Mister Rogers' "What Do You Do With the Mad That You Feel?", the Count's calm breathing and GoNoodle's "Pizza Cool Down". Put one calming song on repeat. The last three videos are for grown-ups.

Play all on repeat

Videos in this playlist

  1. 1DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | What Do You Do with the Mad that You Feel? Song | PBS KIDSDANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | What Do You Do with the Mad that You Feel? Song | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop
  2. 2Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood FULL EPISODE | Daniel Gets Mad / Katerina Gets Mad | PBS KIDSDaniel Tiger's Neighborhood FULL EPISODE | Daniel Gets Mad / Katerina Gets Mad | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop
  3. 3DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | "Grr, Grr, Grr, Out Loud" Song | PBS KIDSDANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | "Grr, Grr, Grr, Out Loud" Song | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop
  4. 4DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | Daniel's Feeling Songs | PBS KIDSDANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | Daniel's Feeling Songs | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop
  5. 5"What Do You Do With the Mad That You Feel?" | Song | Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood"What Do You Do With the Mad That You Feel?" | Song | Mister Rogers’ NeighborhoodMister Rogers’ NeighborhoodPlay from here Loop
  6. 6Count, Breathe, RelaxCount, Breathe, RelaxSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  7. 7Sesame Street: Learn to Belly Breathe with Rosita | #CaringForEachOtherSesame Street: Learn to Belly Breathe with Rosita | #CaringForEachOtherSesame StreetPlay from here Loop
  8. 8Nina Helps to Handle Cookie Monster's Tantrum | Social Emotional SkillsNina Helps to Handle Cookie Monster's Tantrum | Social Emotional SkillsSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  9. 9Elmo Manages New Emotions with "I Notice, I Feel, I Can" | Emotional Well-BeingElmo Manages New Emotions with "I Notice, I Feel, I Can" | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  10. 10A Time to Talk | Elmo and His Grown-Ups Manage Big Feelings | Emotional Well-beingA Time to Talk | Elmo and His Grown-Ups Manage Big Feelings | Emotional Well-beingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  11. 11The Count’s 10-Second Hum | Emotional Well-BeingThe Count’s 10-Second Hum | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  12. 12The Count’s Six-Second Hug | Emotional Well-BeingThe Count’s Six-Second Hug | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  13. 13Abby & Telly’s Ocean Bottle | Emotional Well-BeingAbby & Telly’s Ocean Bottle | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  14. 14Big Bird’s Comfort Container | Emotional Well-BeingBig Bird’s Comfort Container | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  15. 15Rudy’s Bedtime Meltdown | Emotional Well-BeingRudy’s Bedtime Meltdown | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  16. 16Breathe Like a Butterfly with Abby and Alan | Emotional Well-BeingBreathe Like a Butterfly with Abby and Alan | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  17. 17Butterfly Breaths with Grover & Quinta Brunson | Mindfulness MomentButterfly Breaths with Grover & Quinta Brunson | Mindfulness MomentSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  18. 18Pizza Cool Down with The Mooderators | Breathing Exercises For Kids | GoNoodlePizza Cool Down with The Mooderators | Breathing Exercises For Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  19. 19Melting Exercise - Learn To Destress | Guided Meditation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleMelting Exercise - Learn To Destress | Guided Meditation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  20. 20The Mooderators: Scan with a Plan | Emotional Awareness Exercises for Kids | GoNoodleThe Mooderators: Scan with a Plan | Emotional Awareness Exercises for Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  21. 21Let's Unwind | Flow | Meditation For Kids | GoNoodleLet's Unwind | Flow | Meditation For Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  22. 22Learn To Let It Go | Guided Meditiation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleLearn To Let It Go | Guided Meditiation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  23. 23Star Breath | Calm and Focus Activities for Kids | GoNoodleStar Breath | Calm and Focus Activities for Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop
  24. 24Having Big Feelings in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteHaving Big Feelings in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop
  25. 25Using Your Words in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteUsing Your Words in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop
  26. 26Monster Meltdown with Freddy and Rudy | ParentingMonster Meltdown with Freddy and Rudy | ParentingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop
  27. 27How to Help Children Calm Down | Child Mind InstituteHow to Help Children Calm Down | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop
  28. 28Is My Child's Anger Normal? | Child Mind InstituteIs My Child's Anger Normal? | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop

When is the best time to practice calm-down songs?

Practice when your child is already calm, for example after breakfast or before bed. A strategy learned in a quiet moment is much easier to reach for in the middle of a meltdown than one heard for the first time.

How can RepeatWatch help in the moment?

Open the song your child knows and choose Repeat one, or drag A and B around just the breathing part so it loops. Set Stop after to two or three loops, so the video ends on its own once your child has settled.

Frequently asked questions

Which videos are for parents?

The last three are for grown-ups: Sesame Workshop's "Monster Meltdown" parenting moment and two Child Mind Institute videos on helping children calm down and on what typical anger looks like. The rest are for children ages 3–6.

How is this different from the feelings and mindfulness playlists?

The feelings songs page teaches the names of emotions, and the mindfulness page offers longer guided meditations. This one focuses on quick tools for the hard moment itself: counting, breathing, hugging a comfort object and talking about it after.

What if my child has meltdowns very often?

Big feelings and tantrums are a normal part of growing up. If meltdowns are very frequent, intense or getting worse, talk with your child's doctor or another professional who knows young children.