Calm-down songs for big feelings (ages 3–6)
Quick answer
Short songs and exercises a young child can use when feelings get big: Daniel Tiger's "take a deep breath and count to four", Mister Rogers' "What Do You Do With the Mad That You Feel?", the Count's calm breathing and GoNoodle's "Pizza Cool Down". Put one calming song on repeat. The last three videos are for grown-ups.
Videos in this playlist
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DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | What Do You Do with the Mad that You Feel? Song | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop - 2
Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood FULL EPISODE | Daniel Gets Mad / Katerina Gets Mad | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop - 3
DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | "Grr, Grr, Grr, Out Loud" Song | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop - 4
DANIEL TIGER'S NEIGHBORHOOD | Daniel's Feeling Songs | PBS KIDSPBS KIDSPlay from here Loop - 5
"What Do You Do With the Mad That You Feel?" | Song | Mister Rogers’ NeighborhoodMister Rogers’ NeighborhoodPlay from here Loop - 6
Count, Breathe, RelaxSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 7
Sesame Street: Learn to Belly Breathe with Rosita | #CaringForEachOtherSesame StreetPlay from here Loop - 8
Nina Helps to Handle Cookie Monster's Tantrum | Social Emotional SkillsSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 9
Elmo Manages New Emotions with "I Notice, I Feel, I Can" | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 10
A Time to Talk | Elmo and His Grown-Ups Manage Big Feelings | Emotional Well-beingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 11
The Count’s 10-Second Hum | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 12
The Count’s Six-Second Hug | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 13
Abby & Telly’s Ocean Bottle | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 14
Big Bird’s Comfort Container | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 15
Rudy’s Bedtime Meltdown | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 16
Breathe Like a Butterfly with Abby and Alan | Emotional Well-BeingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 17
Butterfly Breaths with Grover & Quinta Brunson | Mindfulness MomentSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 18
Pizza Cool Down with The Mooderators | Breathing Exercises For Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 19
Melting Exercise - Learn To Destress | Guided Meditation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 20
The Mooderators: Scan with a Plan | Emotional Awareness Exercises for Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 21
Let's Unwind | Flow | Meditation For Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 22
Learn To Let It Go | Guided Meditiation For Kids | Breathing Exercises | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 23
Star Breath | Calm and Focus Activities for Kids | GoNoodleGoNoodle | Get MovingPlay from here Loop - 24
Having Big Feelings in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop - 25
Using Your Words in Hedgehog Land | Healthy Minds, Thriving Kids Pre-K | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop - 26
Monster Meltdown with Freddy and Rudy | ParentingSesame WorkshopPlay from here Loop - 27
How to Help Children Calm Down | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop - 28
Is My Child's Anger Normal? | Child Mind InstituteChild Mind InstitutePlay from here Loop
When is the best time to practice calm-down songs?
Practice when your child is already calm, for example after breakfast or before bed. A strategy learned in a quiet moment is much easier to reach for in the middle of a meltdown than one heard for the first time.
How can RepeatWatch help in the moment?
Open the song your child knows and choose Repeat one, or drag A and B around just the breathing part so it loops. Set Stop after to two or three loops, so the video ends on its own once your child has settled.
Frequently asked questions
Which videos are for parents?
The last three are for grown-ups: Sesame Workshop's "Monster Meltdown" parenting moment and two Child Mind Institute videos on helping children calm down and on what typical anger looks like. The rest are for children ages 3–6.
How is this different from the feelings and mindfulness playlists?
The feelings songs page teaches the names of emotions, and the mindfulness page offers longer guided meditations. This one focuses on quick tools for the hard moment itself: counting, breathing, hugging a comfort object and talking about it after.
What if my child has meltdowns very often?
Big feelings and tantrums are a normal part of growing up. If meltdowns are very frequent, intense or getting worse, talk with your child's doctor or another professional who knows young children.